There is a mantra out ‘there’ that says we alone control our responses to events, that the universe is thusly ours to command.
I’ve never quite subscribed to the totality of this mantra. Random stuff happens; in fact, change and random stuff seems to be the only constant.
I read something today that stretched my comprehension of the first part of this sentiment. Specifically, “you control what every external event means to you personally.” (The Daily Stoic, Holiday)
This I can agree with in totality. Therein lies an ultimate control, internally.